1️⃣ nobody is going to know what your style is better than you. develop self-trust. you don’t need more “advice” from influencers, your mom, auntie, or bestie, or brands to tell you what you “should” wear.

2️⃣ you’re not shallow for caring about your style. you’re not personally causing climate change by doing a single return or buying one new garment. banish binary thinking.

3️⃣ shopping is not a hobby. period. you've got better things to do.

4️⃣ the next trend isn’t the one that will suddenly make you feel stylish. what works on your body and for your lifestyle is always going to be “in”.

5️⃣ conversely: there’s no such thing as timeless style. as you change, your style will too. you have permission to not be permanent. 

6️⃣ if it doesn’t fit, it’s always the clothes, never your body. (for real.)

7️⃣ take pride in taking care of your nice things. wear them—that’s what they are for. your closet is not a museum. but take care of them.

8️⃣ work hard once. if you think being stylish means spending more time on style, think again. once you learn style skills and define your look, you'll spend less time agonizing over your style and more time having it.

9️⃣ make mindset moves. whatever it is that your brain is telling you is the reason you can't have great personal style? that's where to begin.

🔟️ have more fun.